Wiley wrote:I'd say if your spouse cheats with another woman she may have just decided to experiment with her sexual fantasies. Who that other woman is might be significant. But the major concern would be if she decided to change her sexual preference to women and shut her husband out of the bedroom. No way! The marriage would be over. A true male would try to book a menage a' trois before she changed the locks.
If your spouse cheats with another man it might be because the husband has failed to provide sufficient attention or security to keep her from straying. Look to yourself first before you decide to lay all the blame on her. Focus on understanding rather than the inflicted pain. Decide which feeling is stronger - betrayal or a sense of forgiveness. Before the couple decides that a separation or divorce are options, seek professional counseling. If all else fails and children are involved on both sides, shoot yourself so the children can have parents to raise them.
I like you. You spot the truth pretty quickly.Charles wrote:
I think you're a guy and I think you wrote that it would bother you more if your spouse (you wife) fooled around with another guy.
Charles wrote:What would bug you more? Your spouse cheats on you with a person of the opposite sex to your spouse or with the same sex as your spouse?
Gender of the other party doesn't matter to me
Notorious wrote:I'm not married so just speaking on girlfriends but they've all been bi or ended up being bi. They alays assume at first that I will enjoy it, but I actually don't care for two women together or having a meange a trois either. I will typically let my girlfriend kiss other girls but that's as far as I'm comfortable with (and not really comfortable with it).
The guy would hurt way more because with a girl it may just not be something I could ever provide because of gender, whereas a guy is definitely more painful due to questioning one's self more.
oceanvue wrote:If I was a girl I would definitely be gay. It makes me gag just to think about waking up next to my big ugly arse
Ya, strippers usually have very rough lives with questionable backgrounds..not suprising that they are confused..I don't think that makes them Gay
With a man if he cheats with another man he is straight up Gay and week for not being able to come clean in the first place..why hook up with a woman just because you are not man enough to be true to yourself?
Why?! That's just gross....
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